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Introduction
Yo, what’s up guys? This is David Hoang coming at you from supplementsuperhero.com and I’m excited to talk about this topic.
The question here….it’s a very, very interesting video, but the question I’m going to be talking about today is, do girls like fat guys? Again, do girls like fat guys?
This is actually a really, really interesting topic and something that is really, really different than any of the other videos that I’ve done before, and there’s a reason why that is. By the way, if you really like this video and this video happens to get tons of views, and if you really like it, let me know, I’d love to do more of these types of videos.
The Why
These types of videos- like health, and body image, and social relationship type videos, I find them very interesting and very important to talk about.
The reason I wanted to do this video is because I was thinking the other day about the reason why a lot of people take supplements, the reason why we take diet pills or why we take protein powder or muscle-enhancing supplements.
The reason why we hit the gym, the reason why we go on diets, the reason why we strive for this healthy lifestyle and try to obtain six-pack abs, or big muscles, or we want to lose weight, we want to burn fat.
If you’re really look at the reason why, sure, a big part of it has to do with the health aspect…we want to be healthier.
I mean, I’m sure we want to lower our blood sugar, we want to lower our blood pressure, we want to live a long and healthy life, and prevent a lot of crazy diseases and all that good stuff. Maybe a part of it is athletic too.
Maybe you’re into sports, maybe you’re trying to get fit, or maybe you’re lifting competitively- you’re wrestling…you’re running….or whatever the reason may be, sure, there’s an athletic component too.
I would say a big… and I would argue maybe even the biggest reason why we want to hit the gym…the reason why we want to invest in supplements….the reason why we’re hitting the gym…. is to make ourselves look more attractive, and we want to look more attractive for both ourselves and for other people.
Okay, particularly to make ourselves more attractive in general to other people, to attract other people to us in general.
That’s why I really felt as though this was important to cover because that’s kind of the reason, the big reason, why we’re all in this game….we want to become a better version of ourselves.
We want to be not just healthier, not just more athletic, but we actually want to look better and more attractive so that could lead to maybe a relationship, or lead to friendships, or lead to people being impressed by us, whatever the case may be.
Fat Guys: Yes or No?
I thought this was very important to talk about because a lot of the guys who watch this channel, a lot of guys that watch my videos….we might be thinking this so I thought it’d be very important to cover.
Here’s my honest, real, 100% no BS answer. Do girls like fat guys? The answer is yes. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, 100% yes.
That’s my real, 100%, no BS answer guys, and girls, this applies to girls, I guess.
Initial Impressions
Here’s the thing: ultimately, yes, I mean I think with a lot of girls, I want to say girls (I mean woman too), that they might not be immediately attracted to fat guys.
Let’s face it, I mean we’re all shallow to a certain extent. Society conditions us to associate being fat as being unattractive, which is really ridiculous. Unfortunately, that’s the way we’ve been conditioned.
You see a fat person, you think, “Ugh, ugh, that’s not attractive.” Unfortunately, yes, that might be the case.
So if you’re like a fatter guy, a bigger guy… And by the way, fat is like a super, super relative term, I mean that’s something that we can cover another time since it’s like a whole other topic that we could talk about for minutes and minutes and minutes and spend hours and hours on it.
Anyways, fat is a very relative term. If you’re kind of a fat guy, yes, you might have that stigma where if you go on the street and a girl sees you, they may not be physically attracted to you right away. That’s 100% true. Yes, we’ve been conditioned to think that way.
The thing is, that doesn’t really matter because every single person, even if you’re the best looking person on the planet, you’re going to have certain physical deformities. You’re going to have certain physical characteristics about you that other people might not find attractive.
First 30 Seconds
I think what’s most important is not so much like what you look like on the outside, but it’s what occurs in the first 30 seconds of your interaction with a woman or with a girl. That’s the most important thing.
The thing is, I know it sounds really cliche and I know it’s something that we hear all the time in movies, books, so on, so forth, but it really is not so much about the looks, but it’s more about the personality.
It’s more about the character, it’s more about your values, and it’s more about your interpersonal skills and your ability to create chemistry when you interact with the girl.
That’s the biggest thing. That’s the biggest and most important thing ever. Because ultimately, your looks don’t really matter. Just because you’re fat, it doesn’t mean girls are going to write you off immediately.
If you’ve got a strong enough personality where you can capture their attention, you can create chemistry…you could have a really good strong interpersonal interaction with them. Fat or no fat, they’re going to be attracted to you.
Work On Yourself
The important thing is being able to work on yourself and being able to work on you as a person to basically convey that in your interpersonal skills.
Convey that in your communication and show that you’re not just some big, fat guy, and you’re not just some big, fat loser, but you’re actually a winner. That even though you might be a little bit overweight, you have way, way, way more to offer than just your physical appearance.
I know that sounds cliche, but it’s very, very true and I’ve seen this a lot. I’ve seen it in videos I’ve watched, articles I’ve read on online, I’ve seen it a lot in real life….in real life. I’ve seen big, fat guys have gorgeous wives and gorgeous girlfriends.
It happens, and it happens because of who they are as a person. It’s not because they’re overweight, it’s not because of how they look….it’s about who they are and what they bring to the table.
It’s about that charisma, that confidence, those interpersonal skills, and most importantly, it’s that chemistry that they can create with other people….with other girls.
Fat Vs. Unhealthy
By the way, just to let you know, fat does not mean unhealthy- there’s a difference. There’s fat and being healthy, and there’s fat being unhealthy.
I think it’s important to realize that being fat and unhealthy is unattractive to both men and women. It doesn’t really matter.
I mean, when somebody is living an unhealthy lifestyle….they’re not going to the gym or they’re eating really, really poorly, or they’re laying down all the time, and they’re becoming unhealthy and unhealthy, and living a sedentary lifestyle. That, in general, is not really attractive. Just so you know.
But if, let’s say, you’re a bit on the bigger size and you’re making an effort to live a healthier lifestyle, many times that’s going to be seen as attractive. Just remember that too. Unhealthy is not the same as fat.
Now, that’s a whole other story, a whole other video on other topics to talk about maybe for next time.
Final Thoughts
Anyways, just remember guys, this is my opinion, based on what I’ve read, based on what I’ve seen,
based on what I’ve observed in just real life, my own personal life, so that’s just my personal opinion about it.
I think ultimately, if there’s one thing you want to remember, just remember this: it’s not about how you look, it’s about how you make others feel when they look at you.
Remember that. Not about how you look, but it’s about how you make others feel when they look at you.
Conclusion
Hopefully the video helped guys. Hopefully this answers the question. Let me know your thoughts on this topic, it’s a very interesting topic.
Please leave me a comment in the comment section below. Do you agree with me? Do you disagree with me? Do you have some questions, comments, compliments about what I had to say? Let me know in the comment section below, I’d love to interacting with you guys.
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As always guys, thank you so much for watching! I really appreciate it. Have a fantastic day, and as always, Supp It Up.